Do children ever interrupt you while you're talking to other adults and don't stop bothering you until you ignore them? Afterwards, it is likely that what they had to tell you was not very important to you, but for them it was and that is why they wanted you to listen to them at all costs. It is usually caused by a lack of patience or by the desire to attract the attention of adults.
Children usually interrupt adults from the age of 3 to about 6, but you need to know what to do about it when this happens so that children stop having that bad habit and that little by little, they are able to regulate their behavior.
When a child does not stop interrupting while the adult is speaking, the adult is likely to become nervous and impatient (while the child screams louder and louder for attention) and ends up giving a voice for the child to shut up. This is not the solution, the child's feeling can be heartbreaking in such a situation.
Parents should understand that this is a very common behavior among children, especially when they are young.Children need to feel loved, supported, listened to and valued, for this it is necessary to teach them that even if the adult is conversing with another person, they are there and will listen to them when the conversation comes to an end.
How to ensure that the child does not interrupt the adults? What leads a child to interrupt the conversation of adults? How to let the child know in which moments and situations they can interrupt and in which they cannot? We tell you how:
1. By example and being a role model
Children follow the models of their parents. If parents are examples of respect, patience and knowing how to wait their turn to speak, children will imitate this behavior. Example, if the parent is talking to a friend on the phone, the other should not interrupt. And if for some reason he does, you should apologize and give him the turn. The child observes everything around him.
2. Teach you when to interrupt
Children must learn when to distinguish between situations in which they can interrupt from those in which they have to wait. To do this, parents can teach them how to act when a situation demands urgency, that is, it cannot wait.
If the child is very impatient and interrupts constantly, you can tell him that when he has something to say, you will have to put your hand on the adult's wrist as a signal you want to say something, but you will have to wait. This way the adult will know that you want to say something (because both have agreed to do so previously) and will attend to you when you finish speaking.
3. Teach you when NOT to interrupt
One way to do it is stop the conversation with the adult, get down to the child's height and say, looking into his eyes: 'Now I am talking to (the person's name), when I finish you can tell me what you want, while you have to wait a few minutes'. And as soon as you finish the conversation with the adult, remind the child to tell you what they had in mind, so they will feel valued and can wait their turn next time.
In case the child is not happy with this, one way to let him know that you are there and that you will listen to him when you finish the conversation is putting a hand on his shoulder so that he feels recognized at all times and then turn to him and talk about what the little one had in mind.
These three ways are very respectful to the child and also to the adult with whom you are talking. The child will only need to wait a few minutes for you to finish the conversation or for you to pause and listen to the child giving him full attention. But of course, so that a child does not interrupt must have a good role model and the adult must make exceptions in an emergency.
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