After the delivery and spending a few days in the hospital, where the baby and the mother were able to count on all the medical support and care, it was time to go home, and this time carrying a baby in her arms.
It is normal that parents, especially new ones, have to face doubts, fears and concerns regarding the care of the baby and the new family reality. That usually happens in baby's first days at home.
The baby is home, now what? This feeling of disorientation is normal for parents during the baby's first days at home. In addition to feeding, bathing, treating the navel and changing the baby's diaper, you have to know him, know why he is crying, when he is hungry or sleepy, and communicate with him. Everything seems difficult at first, but after a few days everything will follow its rhythm and the parents will not even remember the days they were without their baby.
For parents to live this stage with peace of mind and also enjoy their baby and parenthood, and that they can get to know the baby and the baby with them, it is convenient to follow some tips:
1 - Learn to delegate
Do not rule out the help of a family member or friend, especially in the first days with the baby. Delegating housework, errands, etc. to someone will relax you. They may not make them the way you would like, but remember that the priority now is the baby.
2 - Welcome to those who come to help
It is advisable to limit visits. In the first days of the baby at home, it is best to avoid the house getting crowded. Ideally, if someone comes, they should come to help.
3 - Rest while the baby sleeps
During the first days the baby will only eat and sleep. So they should take the opportunity to rest or do the housework that corresponds to them.
4 - Plan household chores
It is necessary to plan the baby care and the housework between the couple so that neither of you feel overwhelmed.
5 - Eat well after childbirth
It is important not only that the mother rest to promote milk production, but also that she feed well. A good diet and hydration will also help breastfeeding.
6 - Navel care and cure
The healing of the baby's navel usually lasts between 5 and 8 days. In general, the baby is not bathed in this period, although there are mothers who do is bathe the baby and dry his navel very well after the bath with sterile gauze. In any case, the medical guidelines should be followed.
7 - Care with the mother's breast
Taking care of the breasts is important as they will be, in many cases, the baby's source of nourishment. Circular massages, for example, can avoid problems like mastitis, for example.
8 - Stimulate maternal bond
The more arms, the more skin-to-skin contacts, the more caresses, the better for the baby and the mother. This type of communication between the baby and his mother is essential.
9 - The priority is the baby
Although the tasks may overwhelm you in the first days, it is important not to forget to enjoy your baby to the fullest because he is unique and special in your lives, with love, dedication and patience.
10 - Basic shopping for the baby
To avoid having to go out to buy something that the baby may be missing, it is best to prepare beforehand with basic things for the baby, such as having enough diapers, wipes, clothes, bottles (in case you do not have breast milk), milk formula, crib, sheets and everything you need for your baby's first days at home.
The first days with your baby at home should be lived with patience, tranquility and respect. Remember that for him and for you parents, everything is new and that no one is born knowing everything. Your baby will cry, fall asleep, relieve himself and depend solely on you. So keep in mind:
- That at birth, although the baby has blurred vision, he is able to identify the features of your face from a span of distance. May your baby always see a smile on your face.
- That the baby will begin to know the world around him through the sounds he hears. He will begin to know you through the sound of your voices. May you always have kind words for him.
- That the baby will use all the senses such as smell and touch, to identify the person who is carrying or caring for him.
- That the baby needs to be fed every 2 to 3 hours. It is important to wake him up to feed him. Let the baby feel that he is being cared for and cared for.
- That the baby will sleep a lot and will need vigilance. Do not leave the baby alone in a room although they can take advantage of this time to organize and rest as well.
- Than your baby is unique. It needs not only care but also a lot of love and attention. It is your priority.
1- If you can sit down, don't stand
2- If you can lie down, do not stay seated
3- If you can sleep, don't stay awake
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